Bears Looking  Safety Policies

We are committed to free expression, and we believe everyone is best served when everyone has a voice. We believe a rich diversity of viewpoints and experiences enriches our entire community. In order to protect the experience and safety of our users, however, there are some limitations on the type of content and behavior that we allow.

In particular, we recognize that abuse can happen, and it can happen to some groups disproportionately, especially when based on sex, sexuality, color, or targeted at marginalized or historically underrepresented groups. We are committed to combating abusive conduct, particularly when motivated by hatred, prejudice or intolerance and abuse that seeks to silence the voices of those who have been historically marginalized.


Most Common Ban / Content Removal Reasons

  • Driving
  • Sexual Content
  • Hate Speech, Harassment, or Violence
  • Alcohol / Drugs
  • Minors
  • Spam

To learn more, please view our full Content and Conduct Policy.

Tips for Dating Safely

COVID-19 Update: It has NEVER been more important that you follow all government warnings/protocols. If you are under an order to stop all non-essential movement outside the home, please do so. Dating is not essential. There are many ways to date virtually and safely on our app.



Meet Safely

Always meet in a public place if choosing to meet in person. Make sure someone you trust knows where you will be and when. Always arrange your own transportation. Avoid drugs and alcohol. If you get an unsafe vibe, trust your gut. Use the URSafe app to stay connected to help in an emergency.


Don’t Share Personal Info

Never share personal information, such as your social security number, home address, or details about your daily routine.

Don’t Send Money

Never send money, even if the person claims to be in an emergency. If another member asks you for money, report it to us immediately.